You know the saying, The world doesn’t revolve around you? Thing is, it actually does. We’re all our own little universes, creating our lives according to our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. As such, everything we see and experience is a reflection of those beliefs....
Dr. John Gottman, a relationship researcher, discovered four predictors of divorce. He calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. When couples display a high percentage of these “Horsemen” in their interactions, they have a much greater chance of eventual...
Dear Meli, I am an active member of a spiritual community. I have been in this community for a long time, and have always considered myself a valuable member. Others in the community treat me with respect and kindness. Lately, however, there has been a change. A new...
Dear Meli, I know I am supposed to love myself, warts and all. And I am better at this than I have ever been. I continue to get better all the time, in fact. I practice being nicer to me, and I get better at it. But I have this one area that feels impossible for me,...
Is there anything better than people telling you that your passion sucks?! Oh, wait. That’s not what I meant to say. Why the &%$^ do people think they have the right to tell you there’s something wrong with the thing that is most precious to you?!...
