Comments on: ­­­What’s Your Relationship Formula? https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/ Tools for Radically Joyful Living Wed, 23 Nov 2022 02:41:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-12130 Tue, 31 Dec 2019 18:12:08 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-12130 In reply to Georgiann.

Hi Georgiann, We love that for you! Possibilities and peace and harmony. And a sane, calm guy. We will hold that for you, with Love!!! M&Z

]]> By: Georgiann https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-12128 Tue, 31 Dec 2019 05:43:03 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-12128 When I was young I thought “bad” boys was the way to go… OMG I could tell stories!! But, now that Im older and saner , possibilities and peace and harmony would be my goals. I’m in a small country town looking for a sane, calm guy that just wants to hangout and have someone there we can both feel very comfortable around. If you meet any of those send them this way…

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3160 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 22:48:38 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3160 In reply to Kayla.

Yay for Possibility! I will hold this for you in your formula as well. 🙂

]]> By: Kayla https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3159 Thu, 01 Oct 2015 22:37:11 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3159 Love this post, Z. You hit the nail on the head for me. My formula is usually something like: I’m attracted, we’re compatible = this will be fun, but then either I’m going to get suffocated or one of us will get hurt. Great formula for success (not). As of today, I have started to put “possibility” in. Very freeing. Thank you!

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3158 Wed, 30 Sep 2015 20:14:40 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3158 In reply to Becka.

You’re welcome! Except maybe not for the creepy part.

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3157 Wed, 30 Sep 2015 20:14:19 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3157 In reply to Jill Shinn.

Wow, I like knowing that I have nerdy genius super powers. That’s awesome. Thank you! 🙂

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3156 Wed, 30 Sep 2015 20:13:59 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3156 In reply to Karen Money Williams.

I love those vows that Abe talks about. Melissa and I didn’t include those exact vows in our ceremony, but that’s pretty much how we move forward. Flexibility is a wonderful thing to have in a relationship, letting each partner breathe and grow. Glad that you and Mark have found that sweet spot of openness and flexibility. 🙂

]]> By: Becka https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3155 Tue, 29 Sep 2015 17:38:10 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3155 This post is so close to home it’s creepy. Thanks for the seed of hope. 🙂

]]> By: Jill Shinn https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3154 Tue, 29 Sep 2015 16:21:19 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3154 These formulas say it all! Thanks for your nerdy genius super powers. You’re the best!!!

]]> By: Karen Money Williams https://ohmygodlife.com/%c2%ad%c2%ad%c2%adwhats-your-relationship-formula/#comment-3153 Tue, 29 Sep 2015 14:57:47 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=7092#comment-3153 My feller, Mark, and I go by Abraham’s suggestion for a satisfying relationship: “You’re not responsible for my happiness. I am responsible for my own happiness.” So when one of us gets upset with something the other has said or done, we first reframe the way we’re looking at the situation. And then, of course, we can discuss things — but from a place of feeling self-soothed rather than angry and accusatory.

I appreciate your concept of possibility. It’s in line with Abe’s suggested and droll marriage vows: “I like you and you like me. Let’s see how it goes.” That always draws a lot of laughs, but the point is to remain open and flexible about a relationship rather than etching something in stone and then trying to live from that place forever after. 🙂

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