Comments on: The Thing We All Do That Seriously F**ks Us Up https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/ Tools for Radically Joyful Living Sun, 17 Sep 2023 22:29:20 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-22017 Sun, 17 Sep 2023 22:29:20 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-22017 In reply to Pegatha McKeon.

Hi Pegatha!
Yes, it was wonderful meeting you in Ocala and seeing you in Asheville! Thank you so much for joining our Patreon family!
We look forward to connecting with you as well.
XOXOZ

]]> By: Pegatha McKeon https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21999 Thu, 14 Sep 2023 14:50:15 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21999 Hi Z! It was so wonderful meeting you and Melissa in Ocala, FL and seeing you again in Asheville, NC! I love, love, love you both and your messages! I finally became a Patron today! Yay! I tried to sign up for podcasts but I do not know what I am doing. I will reach out for support from your team soon, as I will really enjoy listening to your upbeat perspectives on life and our world. Love the message about assumptions. I have been more conscious of exactly that lately, however, your story about your tour led me to realize that I make many more than I ever realized! Thanks for sharing. Much love to you and Melissa! I look forward to seeing you again, and to hearing your podcasts regularly in the near future!

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21978 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 21:09:31 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21978 In reply to Dale Covey.

Big X. I like it! πŸ™‚

I was reading today about the Enneagram One, sometimes called the Perfectionist. It talked about the illusion of perfection, and all the damage that illusion does to our expectations and assumptions. Big X for sure! Even though I’m not a One, it was still helpful for me to think of the “perfect” as often illusory.

I appreciate your comment about finding the pattern of Spirit. Beautiful!

Thank you for your insights!

]]> By: Dale Covey https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21977 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 19:19:33 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21977 In reply to Z Egloff.

Big X (not to be confused with that thing formerly known as Twitter). Big Expectations. I get into the mindset that if I only organize Perfectly then my Big Expectations will materialize.

Letting go of attachment to outcome. Knowing that everything always works out for my highest good.

Today when I say Big X – I feel the energy of Rev Sara’s prayer. And the with additional clarity of my mind trying to find patterns … maybe I can find the pattern of Spirit.

Thanks for the conversation 😎

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21974 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 16:25:33 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21974 In reply to Dale.

Hi Dale!

I can unfortunately relate to the Right Way assumption. That’s a tough one. Especially in relationships!

Thank you for sharing Rev. Sara’s prayer. I love that! Affirming that things are falling into place is wonderful. It reminds me of the Abraham teachings and their reminder: “Things are always working out for me!”

And keep me posted on that Ass substitute! πŸ˜‰

See you in October!

XOZ

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21973 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 16:22:41 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21973 In reply to Lucia K Karakitsios.

Hi Lucia,
I’m so sorry to hear that! I know that assumptions can lead us to some difficult places, but in this case that sounds really hard. Sending you love as you navigate the next steps!
XOZ

]]> By: Dale https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21972 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 15:15:24 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21972 I too would like to find a different word to use that Ass. And Tush doesn’t exactly fit for me. As I get ready to leave on a week’s camping trip this morning – I really need to keep this concept in mind. Gary’s “adding the brains needs to find patterns” helps me clarify what my mind is doing when I am constantly working the best way to get everything done in the “perfect and most efficient way.” And – don’t lose sight Dale of what you are thinking about what my mind is planning for my ever hard working wife. (wouldn’t it all just go better if she (ok the world) did it MY Way.

And to add a little spice to this conversation that I am having with myself (ok with you too) I think of Rev Sara’s prayer for me on our weekly group prayer call “Even though there may be a list – things are falling in to place …”

Thank you for this moment of Spirit and understanding of how my mind works. (okay back to finding my perfect replacement word for Ass.) hummmmm – ya think i need to let go of perfect? Ya me too

much love looking forward to seeing you in Sacramento in October.

]]> By: Lucia K Karakitsios https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21971 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:53:42 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21971 In reply to Linda Robinett.

My Big Ass got me moving to Reno, thinking I was going to receive financial help from a friend who “offered to help financially ” I moved and I still haven’t heard from him.

]]> By: Z Egloff https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21947 Sat, 02 Sep 2023 00:32:50 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21947 In reply to Linda Robinett.

Hi Linda,
We would LOVE to come to CSLSR! We have asked about coming there in the past and didn’t receive an invite. Tell them to invite us!! πŸ™‚
XOXOXOZ

]]> By: Linda Robinett https://ohmygodlife.com/the-thing-we-all-do-that-seriously-fks-us-up/#comment-21945 Fri, 01 Sep 2023 17:06:09 +0000 https://ohmygodlife.com/?p=18825#comment-21945 Will you ever be doing a gig at the Center for Spiritual Living in Santa Rosa? We don’t have problems with our ministers. We have money. We have made it out of the COVID crisis. And we are not in Texas. (I know there is a Santa Rosa in New Mexico, this one is in California.)

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