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Happy Clarity Holiday

Happy Clarity Holiday

The contracted, egoic part of me is wrong a lot. A lot! And yet, because my ego is like an intoxicated person inhabiting my brain, it has no problem sharing its opinion with me. Often quite loudly. When I understand that this loud, inebri­ated part of me is usually in...
Can You Be Too Proud of Your Success?

Can You Be Too Proud of Your Success?

Dear Meli, I have what may be a weird problem. After five years, my business has really started to take off. Needless to say, this is pretty exciting! Except for one thing. I’m starting to get worried that I’m getting a big head. I’m feeling really...
Who’s in Charge of Your Life? Your Self or Your Elf?

Who’s in Charge of Your Life? Your Self or Your Elf?

A while back, I wrote a post about the elf self. The elf self is a kinder, gentler name for the ego. It’s the part of us that’s cut off from our Higher Self. Or thinks it’s cut off from our Higher Self. Self – S(pirit) = elf. Get it?! Viewing the ego as an elf is...
What to Do About the Drunk Guy in Your Head

What to Do About the Drunk Guy in Your Head

We all have him. You may not always hear him, but he’s there. Spouting loud, obnoxious stuff. Blatant lies. Cruel insults. Most people call it the ego, but lately I’ve come to see this aspect of myself as a loud, sloppy drunk dude. Yes, it’s a dude. There are...

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