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Help! My Friend’s Partner Is Abusive!
Dear Meli, My best friend has a new partner. At first, I was really happy for her. But the last few times I've hung out with both of them, I'm noticing that my friend's partner is not nice to her. It's pretty stressful to be around. I wasn't sure whether or not to say...
My Guru Has a Tail, Episode 23: The Storm
Even though our Guru kitty, Max, is One with all of creation, there’s one thing he’d rather not be One with, thankyouverymuch. That thing? Loud noises. When the evening of the Fourth of July rolls around every year, we need to close all the windows in the house and...
How Can I Be There for My News Junkie Friend?
Dear Meli, I have a friend who watches the news every day. She's really upset about everything that's going on in the world and it's really stressing her out. I, on the other hand, do not watch the news. I know that there's a lot going on in the world and it makes my...
2 Traits of the Spiritually Mature
There are a lot more than two traits of spiritually mature people. But. I love lists! I love hearing about qualities of certain types of people and seeing if I fit/don’t fit with them. 12 Traits of a Narcissist. I don’t want any of those! 15 Traits of a Perfect Person...
Open to Expansion
Feeling contracted and grumpy is no fun! The next time I go there, I remember I don’t have to stay there. I can saturate my world with things that raise my vibration. Perhaps it’s my favorite movie. Or my favorite book. Perhaps it’s a walk in the woods. Even looking...
What Do I Do About Being Attracted to People Outside My Marriage?
Dear Meli, I am a happily married woman. Or at least, I used to think so. Lately, I have been feeling less attracted to my husband and more attracted to, um, just about everyone. Well, not everyone. But I'm finding myself attracted to other men a lot. Some of them are...
What I Got Wrong About the Ascension Process
If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the wild and wacky waters of the New Age river, you’ve heard about something called the ascension process. Most simply put, ascension is the process of waking up spiritually. You become aware that you are more than just a human in...
Zen and the Art of Frustration
I don’t know if there’s anything more frustrating than wrestling with technology. Okay, maybe wrestling with technology while blindfolded, with my hands tied behind my back. I guess that would be worse? But dealing with technological glitches with eyes open and hands...
How Can I Manifest Things in the Future If I’m Living in the Now?
Dear Meli, I'm involved in a spiritual community where they talk a lot about manifesting things. It's pretty cool, and I've had a lot of success with it. But here's the thing. When I first joined the community, I was really into the practice of Eckhart Tolle's work...
How Do I Break Out of a Routine Life?
Dear Meli, My life is pretty great, but...... It's also kinda boring? My daily routine is pretty much always the same. Get up, meditate, commute to work, work, commute home, dinner with the family, watch tv, sleep. Do it again. My weekend is full of chores and family...
How Important is Spiritual Compatibility?
Dear Meli, I am newly back in the dating world after divorcing my wife last year. I feel like I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing! Case in point: I recently met someone. She's really bright, really funny, and really kind. But she's not at all into spirituality....
Why Do Old Souls Suffer From Low Self-Esteem?
I’ve heard it mentioned more than once that older souls often suffer from low self-esteem. But I’ve never heard it explained why that is. After pondering this question over time, I’ve come up with a theory. (And by “I,” I mean me and my wife Melissa. She helped me...












