Dear Meli, I’ve been with my boyfriend for over three years. At the beginning of our relationship, things were really good. But the last two years haven’t been great. He criticizes me a lot, including in front of other people. When I tell him not to,...
Dr. John Gottman, a relationship researcher, discovered four predictors of divorce. He calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. When couples display a high percentage of these “Horsemen” in their interactions, they have a much greater chance of eventual...
Pursuing your passion is always a good thing, right? “Follow your bliss.” “Do what you love, the money will follow.” “Shoo be doo be doo wap.” (Hey, passion comes in all forms.) But are there any downsides? Does the decision to pursue your passion automatically result...
