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How Do You Handle a Road Raging Spouse?
Dear Meli, I'm a great driver. I've been driving thirty years and I've never even had a speeding ticket. My husband – that's another story. He likes to drive fast. He also tends to get angry at other drivers who don't go as fast as he does. Luckily, I have my own car...
The Hardest Part of Following Your Intuition – and How to Overcome It
There are lots of reasons why following your intuition is hard. Just being able to hear your intuition is a challenge in and of itself. But once you start to open to your intuitive side – and are willing to act on its nudgings – your still small voice gets louder and...
How Do You Handle a Complaining Friend?
Dear Meli, I have a friend. She's one of my oldest and dearest friends. We went to grade school together. She's always had my back, and in many ways she's one of my biggest supporters. But – and this is a big but – she's a big complainer. Like, half of what she says...
Is It My Intuition? Or My Crazy Voice?
Everyone agrees that it's a good thing to listen to your intuition. Everyone except the people who want you to listen to them instead of your intuition. But this post isn't about them! It's about us! And how we can learn to be the Best Intuition Listeners Ever! When I...
Do I Have to Be Spiritual Because My Partner Is?
Dear Meli, I'm not spiritual. Really, I'm not kidding. My partner of ten years, on the other hand, is super spiritual. When we got together, we were both atheists, but since then she's totally gone on a spiritual kick. First it was yoga. Then meditation. And now she's...
The Key Ingredient to Healthy New Beginnings
Has this ever happened to you? You have a great new idea. You're really excited about it. In your excitement, you tell someone who – the minute you open your mouth – you know you shouldn't be telling. Sure enough, they tell you it's not a good idea. They tell you it's...
Are You Depressed or Detached?
Dear Meli, For a long time, I was totally enamored with spiritual life. Amazing things would happen in my life and I would be totally blown away. But now, I'm a lot more blasé about it all. Don't get me wrong, my life is still great. But somehow, I don't care. Things...
Two Things NOT to Do in Relationships
I heard a story the other day that was a great reminder about what not to do in relationships. The story was about a husband and wife who frequently got into arguments about who changed the toilet paper more. They were both convinced that they changed the toilet paper...
How Do You Get Your Power Back?
Dear Meli, I have a friend that I give my power away to all the time. I don't know what it is about her, but even when I give myself a pep talk before I see her, I always end up just giving up and going along with whatever she says is right. I love a lot of things...
The Tricky First Step in Setting a Boundary
Have you ever tried to set a boundary? (Key word: tried.) And have you ever had your boundary trampled upon like a herd of caffeinated elephants escaping from the circus? You and me both, eh? Here's the thing: When you read books about setting boundaries, and they...
Should You Share Your Vision with Others?
Dear Meli, I have a dream. It's a big dream. I haven't told anyone about it because I don't want to have anyone discourage me. What do you think about this? Do you think it's okay to keep it to myself, or should I be sharing it with others who can help or encourage...
A Selfish Reason to Care About Diversity
People are selfish. And that's not necessarily a bad thing. Our selfishness helps us stay alive. It helps us move forward, fulfilling our goals and dreams. Even someone like Mother Theresa, who most of us would view as one of the least selfish people on the planet,...