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Dear Meli
What Do I Do About Being Attracted to People Outside My Marriage?
Dear Meli, I am a happily married woman. Or at least, I used to think so. Lately, I have been feeling less attracted to my husband and more attracted to, um, just about everyone. Well, not everyone. But I'm finding myself attracted to other men a lot. Some of them are...
How Can I Manifest Things in the Future If I’m Living in the Now?
Dear Meli, I'm involved in a spiritual community where they talk a lot about manifesting things. It's pretty cool, and I've had a lot of success with it. But here's the thing. When I first joined the community, I was really into the practice of Eckhart Tolle's work...
How Do I Break Out of a Routine Life?
Dear Meli, My life is pretty great, but...... It's also kinda boring? My daily routine is pretty much always the same. Get up, meditate, commute to work, work, commute home, dinner with the family, watch tv, sleep. Do it again. My weekend is full of chores and family...
How Important is Spiritual Compatibility?
Dear Meli, I am newly back in the dating world after divorcing my wife last year. I feel like I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing! Case in point: I recently met someone. She's really bright, really funny, and really kind. But she's not at all into spirituality....
Do I Confront My Cousin About Her Drug Use?
Dear Meli, I have a cousin who I'm close with. We're only a month apart in age and we grew up going to the same school. We also share something else - sobriety. At least, we did. I heard from my sister a few months ago that my cousin has started using again. I'm not...
How Can I Navigate Other People’s Demands With My Dying Spouse?
Dear Meli, My wife of many years is in the end stages of cancer. Although it is hard, both of us are accepting the process and it is actually beautiful in some ways. The hard part is with our friends and acquaintances. We are part of a large spiritual community and...
How Do I Get Over Unrequited Love?
Dear Meli, A few years ago, I got out of a toxic marriage. I am so grateful that I had the courage to leave. It took a lot to remove myself from the whole situation, but I did it, and I've grown a lot since then. Which brings me to my current dilemma. I'm currently...
How Can I Embrace the Aging Process?
Dear Meli, I'm getting older. This should make me happy, right? I'm healthy. I have a great marriage. I have a wonderful relationship with my grown children. But I find myself looking at my aging body with despair. I know that I've absorbed societal views of aging,...
How Do I Release Religious Sexual Shame?
Dear Meli, I grew up in a strict, religious household. Once I left home, and the church, I thought I'd never go back. And I haven't. But I do have an ever-increasing interest in spirituality. This time, though, it's not about rules from without. It's about...
Help! My Spouse and I Have Incompatible Working Styles!
Dear Meli, My wife and I have been married for about 10 years, and we are very compatible. We share the same spiritual beliefs and practices, which helps a lot. But we're also just really compatible in general. At least, I thought we were! We recently started a...
How Can I Get My Family to Respect My Dying Wish?
Dear Meli, I have an unusual dilemma. I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer. And I’m okay with that. I am electing not to do heroic treatments. I am 84 years old and have lived a wonderful life. The treatments would just prolong my life, but also prolong my...
How Can I Stop Obsessing About My Weight?
Dear Meli, I am embarrassed to ask this question, but here goes. I have had a lifelong struggle with weight and my body. At my heaviest, I weighed over sixty pounds more than I am right now. At my lightest, I was about twenty pounds less than I am right now. My doctor...