My Prounoun Is “She, I Mean They, Sh**, I’m Sorry!”
Some of you just read the title of this post and are now saying, “But Z, I thought your pronoun was ‘they’!” You are correct. My pronouns are they/them/theirs. I define as gender-rich, and “they” is the pronoun that fits me best. But other...
Do I Really Control ALL the Conditions in My Life?
Dear Meli, I’m new to this whole ‘you create your life’ thing. Not surprisingly, I have some questions. Do I really create everything in my life? My dad died a couple years ago. Did I create that? I was born with a congenital heart issue. Did I create that? I...
My Guru Has a Tail, Episode 15: The Ultimate Lesson
Our Guru Max has taught us many things. How to surrender to Spirit. How to respond appropriately to inappropriate behavior. He’s even taught us not to leave our clothes on the floor. But our Guru’s most recent teaching is one that not only impacts our lives profoundly...
How Do I Find Purpose in My Later Years?
Dear Meli, My husband died a few years ago, and ever since then I haven’t felt as connected to my life here on earth. It’s not that I’m depressed necessarily, but I also don’t know why I’m still here. I’ve lived a good life, and I...
