If you’re one of those folks that sees no relationship between ‘lists’ and ‘high vibes,’ I’m right there with you. Years ago, I stopped making lists because I found that they turned me into someone who focused primarily on The List and lost perspective about what The...
Dear Meli, I have a cousin who is very difficult for me. He is younger than me, and is the baby of his family. I’m the oldest in mine, and have looked out for him a lot of my life, especially since both of his parents died about 10 years ago. However, I’m...
Dear Meli, I’ve been with my boyfriend for over three years. At the beginning of our relationship, things were really good. But the last two years haven’t been great. He criticizes me a lot, including in front of other people. When I tell him not to,...
How do you feel about forgiveness? Be honest. It can be annoying, right? It’s not always easy to forgive someone who’s hurt us. But. We’re spiritual people. So we’re supposed to be super good at forgiveness. Riiiiiiight. Here’s a recent story I heard that blew my...
Dear Meli, At the beginning of Covid and Shelter at Home, a lot of my friends and family were freaking out. I, however, was cool, calm, and collected. Everything was going to be fine, I told everyone. Yeah. But see, this thing just keeps going. It’s still going...
Dear Meli, Spirit is the basis of everything, right? And since that’s true, isn’t it the case that if I just focus on Spirit, everything that is unlike Spirit – like hatred and racism – will just go away? I’ve been taught that what I...
