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Dear Meli
Can I Be Friends with Non-Spiritual Peeps?
Dear Meli, My wife and I recently met some new friends at a party. They are about our age and live nearby. They are kind, friendly, and fun to be around. There's just one thing that I've been grappling with. They're atheists. They don't believe in any sort of Higher...
How Important is Consistency in Spiritual Practice?
Dear Meli, How important do you think consistency is? I ask because I have been practicing meditation for several decades now. However, I change my meditation practice quite often. Whenever I hear about a new form of meditation, I'm always intrigued and have to check...
How Can I Stop Comparing Myself with Others?
Dear Meli, One of the hardest things for me on the spiritual path is comparing myself to others. I seem to do it all the time: How I compare to others spiritually, how I compare to others in my physical fitness, how I compare to others in how much money I have. I've...
Can Introverts and Extroverts Be Friends?
Dear Meli, I'm having some conflict with my best friend. We recently went on a vacation together. We had an itinerary planned, but when it came time to do everything, I just couldn't do it. My friend is a lot more extroverted than I am, and she doesn't always...
How Can I Stop Procrastinating?
Dear Meli, I have been trying to be more focused lately. I work at home as my own boss, and I've had a long history of procrastination. I'm tired of it, but it's also a habit that I'm finding hard to break. It's weird, because I really want to be more focused. But...
How Do I Release My Blocks to Prosperity?
Dear Meli, I am a spiritual teacher with over three decades of experience. During that time, I have been teaching and leading workshops out of my home, as well as doing some private spiritual coaching work. Covid definitely changed things, but I was able to switch...
How Do I Handle Being Relieved by My Spouse’s Death?
Dear Meli, My wife and I were married for forty long years. It was a good marriage for the first couple of decades, but the second half of our marriage was challenging. My wife had numerous challenges with her mental health, one of which was frequent outbursts of...
Did Spirit Give Me the Right Body?
Dear Meli, I am a deep believer that everything in life is perfect and given to us by Spirit, even the hard stuff. One of the things I've struggled with for a long time is my body. I am over 60 years old, and have never felt totally at home in my female body. I see...
Isn’t Surrendering to Spirit Better Than Affirmations?
Dear Meli, I hear a lot of people these days talking about affirmations and creating their life. But isn’t Source in charge of everything? And isn’t Source waaaaay smarter than we are? Why do we need to claim or affirm anything? Sticking with Surrender Dear Sticking,...
Do I Really Control ALL the Conditions in My Life?
Dear Meli, I’m new to this whole ‘you create your life’ thing. Not surprisingly, I have some questions. Do I really create everything in my life? My dad died a couple years ago. Did I create that? I was born with a congenital heart issue. Did I create that? I...
How Do I Find Purpose in My Later Years?
Dear Meli, My husband died a few years ago, and ever since then I haven't felt as connected to my life here on earth. It's not that I'm depressed necessarily, but I also don't know why I'm still here. I've lived a good life, and I have nothing else I want to...
How Can I Cope With the Death of My Mom?
Dear Meli, My mother died of Covid a few months ago. She was in her early nineties, and she had already started to decline. Covid was the final straw, but she was ready to go. And yet, even though I know this, I have been having a hell of a time. Her death has knocked...