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My Prounoun Is “She, I Mean They, Sh**, I’m Sorry!”
Some of you just read the title of this post and are now saying, “But Z, I thought your pronoun was 'they'!” You are correct. My pronouns are they/them/theirs. I define as gender-rich, and "they" is the pronoun that fits me best. But other people don’t always remember...
Do I Really Control ALL the Conditions in My Life?
Dear Meli, I’m new to this whole ‘you create your life’ thing. Not surprisingly, I have some questions. Do I really create everything in my life? My dad died a couple years ago. Did I create that? I was born with a congenital heart issue. Did I create that? I...
My Guru Has a Tail, Episode 15: The Ultimate Lesson
Our Guru Max has taught us many things. How to surrender to Spirit. How to respond appropriately to inappropriate behavior. He’s even taught us not to leave our clothes on the floor. But our Guru’s most recent teaching is one that not only impacts our lives profoundly...
How Do I Find Purpose in My Later Years?
Dear Meli, My husband died a few years ago, and ever since then I haven't felt as connected to my life here on earth. It's not that I'm depressed necessarily, but I also don't know why I'm still here. I've lived a good life, and I have nothing else I want to...
A Spiritual Model for Creating Political Progress
What do spirituality and politics have in common? Anything? Abraham Hicks, one of my favorite spiritual teachers, likes to talk about the vortex of creation. The vortex describes the experience of being connected to Source energy. And when we’re connected to Source...
How Can I Cope With the Death of My Mom?
Dear Meli, My mother died of Covid a few months ago. She was in her early nineties, and she had already started to decline. Covid was the final straw, but she was ready to go. And yet, even though I know this, I have been having a hell of a time. Her death has knocked...
Is There Such Thing as Fate?
You know how something synchronistic happens, and it seems as though forces larger than you are crafting the whole thing? Like some mystical, magic Overlord is behind the curtain of material illusion, pulling the proper levers and crafting the circumstances of your...
Are You Accessing This Superpower?
When I first discovered that Spirit is real, that there’s a Power greater than me that’s responsive to my thoughts and beliefs, it blew my mind. This awareness led me to a bunch of wonderful tools that help me work with this Power to create a better life for myself...
What’s the Connection Between Physical Pain and Emotions?
Dear Meli, Do you have any ideas or advice about the connection between physical healing and emotional pain? I have a very difficult relationship with an old friend. In recent years, she has become more and more abusive. So much so, I recently stepped back from the...
How Can I Heal My Shame?
Dear Meli, I have been a long time meditator and spiritual seeker. While this work has helped my life immensely, there's one aspect of myself that stubbornly remains. That aspect is shame. I definitely feel better about myself than when I was younger. But I still feel...
How Can I Feel Worthy of Abundance?
Dear Meli, I have been doing a lot of work on abundance lately. This might seem strange for people who know me, because if you look at my life you'd think I'm pretty abundant. But I'm doing prosperity work because I don't feel worthy of my abundance. A lot of my...
Change Your Clothing, Change Your Life
If you’re worried that this is one of those makeover posts where I tell you to start wearing power suits and pumps, don’t worry. I’m not going to do that! Unless power suits and pumps are part of the journey I’m going to talk about. In that case, power suits and pumps...












