Dear Meli, My wife and I have been together for over 30 years. She is my favorite person in the world. We have 3 kids together, all grown and out of the house, and now it’s just us. Even though I love her, it seems that we have gotten into a pattern of...
I live in the future. It’s true. I’m not talking about avoiding my present reality because I’m fixated on plotting and planning my future reality. Though I have certainly been known to do such a thing. (It’s exhausting. Truly.) I’m also not saying that I live a state...
Dear Meli, As you may know, we elected a new President a few years ago. Ever since then, I have been stressed. I have been stressed that rights are being taken away. I am stressed that hatred and prejudice are being used to unite some people and disenfranchise others....
Let’s be real, depression is not anyone’s friend. Does anyone think depression is their pal? There’s that whole tortured artist brouhaha about needing drugs/mental illness/angst in order to create aaaaaart. Yeah. I call BS on that. Indeed, the main Source needed to...
Dear Meli, I hate the holidays. When I was a kid, it was always the most stressful time of the year. My grandparents and uncle would come visit and things got loud. Fights broke out – verbal and physical. I would see shows on TV of happy families during the...
Pursuing your passion is always a good thing, right? “Follow your bliss.” “Do what you love, the money will follow.” “Shoo be doo be doo wap.” (Hey, passion comes in all forms.) But are there any downsides? Does the decision to pursue your passion automatically result...