What’s Your Filter?
You know the saying, The world doesn’t revolve around you? Thing is, it actually does. We’re all our own little universes, creating our lives according to our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. As such, everything we see and experience is a reflection of those beliefs....
Is It Okay to Be Chill When Everyone Else Is Freaking Out?
Dear Meli, I know that a lot of people are having a really hard time these days. People are dying. People are losing their jobs. People are super stressed out. I am definitely feeling for all those folks that are having a hard time right now, and …. This whole...
How to Tame the Four Horsemen of Relationship Apocalypse
Dr. John Gottman, a relationship researcher, discovered four predictors of divorce. He calls them the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. When couples display a high percentage of these “Horsemen” in their interactions, they have a much greater chance of eventual...
The Nature Metaphor Helping Me Through the Arockalypse
Hey, we’re having a bit of an Arockalypse these days. I call it an Arockalypse because all of our lives are getting rocked upside down. Some more than others. (If you’re reading this Post-Arockalypse, there’s always something going on that has the potential to rock...
How Do I Survive the Pandemic?
Dear Meli, So, we’re having a pandemic! I am currently stuck at home, working full time from my computer. I’m used to a vibrant office with lots of people, and now I’m home all the time. To make matters worse, I’m home with my husband, who is...