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How to Solve a Perpetual Couple’s Fight

How to Solve a Perpetual Couple’s Fight

Back when I was in psychology grad school, we were taught that when a couple is having the same fight again and again – over how to load the dishwasher properly, for example – the fight was merely a decoy. A cover for something deeper. As a therapist, it was our job...
Help! My Friend’s Partner Is Abusive!

Help! My Friend’s Partner Is Abusive!

Dear Meli, My best friend has a new partner. At first, I was really happy for her. But the last few times I’ve hung out with both of them, I’m noticing that my friend’s partner is not nice to her. It’s pretty stressful to be around. I...
How Can I Be There for My News Junkie Friend?

How Can I Be There for My News Junkie Friend?

Dear Meli, I have a friend who watches the news every day. She’s really upset about everything that’s going on in the world and it’s really stressing her out. I, on the other hand, do not watch the news. I know that there’s a lot going on in...
How Important is Spiritual Compatibility?

How Important is Spiritual Compatibility?

Dear Meli, I am newly back in the dating world after divorcing my wife last year. I feel like I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing! Case in point: I recently met someone. She’s really bright, really funny, and really kind. But she’s not at all...
What Driving Melissa’s Car Taught Me About Love

What Driving Melissa’s Car Taught Me About Love

You’re probably not surprised to hear that my wife Melissa has taught me a lot about love. But did you know that Melissa’s car has also schooled me on the subject? Melissa’s car is a blue Honda Fit. We call her Zippity, on account of her ability to zip around the road...

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