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How Do You Get Motivated?
Dear Meli, How do you deal with motivation? Like, being motivated to do things? I seem to have a hard time getting myself to do almost everything, including spiritual practice. I always feel better when I do it, but it usually feels better not to. Or easier. Or...
Gender-Rich: An Expression Whose Time Has Come
I am gender-rich. It took me a long time to figure this out, but once I did, a lot of things fell into place. I’ve already talked about what I used to describe as my gender-flexibility. I’ve discussed how this flexibility affects my choices of footwear. And my ability...
How Can I Stop Bickering With My Spouse?
Dear Meli, My wife and I have been together for over 30 years. She is my favorite person in the world. We have 3 kids together, all grown and out of the house, and now it's just us. Even though I love her, it seems that we have gotten into a pattern of bickering. A...
Depression Is Not My Friend
Let’s be real, depression is not anyone’s friend. Does anyone think depression is their pal? There’s that whole tortured artist brouhaha about needing drugs/mental illness/angst in order to create aaaaaart. Yeah. I call BS on that. Indeed, the main Source needed to...
Here’s a Way to Hack Your Meditation Practice
I know, we don’t usually think of the words “hack” and “meditation” in the same sentence. Meditation takes time and discipline. Trying to hack your meditation practice is like cheating at solitaire. What’s the point of trying if you’re just going to cheat your way out...
How Do You Deal with the Other Shoe?
Dear Meli, I'm a good little manifestor! I meditate, I pray, I say affirmations. And guess what?! They work! Lately, I've been having lots and lots of demonstrations. Things that I've wanted for a long time - and have been praying and affirming for a long time - have...
Hello From the Future!
The minority-majority is the face of the future United States. Why is it a good thing?
How Can You Celebrate the Holidays If You Hate Them?
Dear Meli, I hate the holidays. When I was a kid, it was always the most stressful time of the year. My grandparents and uncle would come visit and things got loud. Fights broke out - verbal and physical. I would see shows on TV of happy families during the holidays...
Can You Be Too Proud of Your Success?
Dear Meli, I have what may be a weird problem. After five years, my business has really started to take off. Needless to say, this is pretty exciting! Except for one thing. I'm starting to get worried that I'm getting a big head. I'm feeling really excited about our...
How Important Is Talent?
Talent is a mysterious thing. Some people are born with prodigious amounts of it. Others, not so much. In other words, talent is something we either have or we don’t, and if we don’t have it, tough luck. Right? Well….. Not really. Yes, it’s true that certain levels of...
How Can You Lower Your Stress About Politics?
Dear Meli, As you may know, we elected a new President a few years ago. Ever since then, I have been stressed. I have been stressed that rights are being taken away. I am stressed that hatred and prejudice are being used to unite some people and disenfranchise others....
The Danger of Pursuing Your Passion
Pursuing your passion is always a good thing, right? “Follow your bliss.” “Do what you love, the money will follow.” “Shoo be doo be doo wap.” (Hey, passion comes in all forms.) But are there any downsides? Does the decision to pursue your passion automatically result...